The perfect friend
A friend indeed is a friend in need or is it the reverse?
The golden way to create friends is by making people feel special.
Everyone wants to be treated nicely, be shown that one's interest matter to us equally as our interests. Everyone wants to be accepted and appreciated the way he/she is. And when you are such kind of a person, you are friendly. That's the genesis of friendship.
Are you friendly?
Did you make a decision to eat half a loaf when a stranger asked you for food?
Remember a stranger is a friend that you know not about. The friend that you have was once a stranger.
Have you yet found a person that will make a perfect friend or are you still on the search? People can be crazy! All of a sudden you get to realise that the friendly guy you met the other day is a drug addict, she's a gold digger, an alcoholic or he never attends church as you do. Can such be a friend? First of all you are never going to meet a person who's like you, believes know all you believe in, wakes up at 5am like you do and likes Rolex no. Tolerance is an important factor in making people feel comfortable in your life. But that will call you to categorise your friends in terms of who you can associate with the more and the less depending on your level of what you can tolerate. It is also a duty of a friend to make your life better, and you to make his life better by learning and teaching each other.
The golden way to create friends is by making people feel special.
Everyone wants to be treated nicely, be shown that one's interest matter to us equally as our interests. Everyone wants to be accepted and appreciated the way he/she is. And when you are such kind of a person, you are friendly. That's the genesis of friendship.
Are you friendly?
Did you make a decision to eat half a loaf when a stranger asked you for food?
Remember a stranger is a friend that you know not about. The friend that you have was once a stranger.
Have you yet found a person that will make a perfect friend or are you still on the search? People can be crazy! All of a sudden you get to realise that the friendly guy you met the other day is a drug addict, she's a gold digger, an alcoholic or he never attends church as you do. Can such be a friend? First of all you are never going to meet a person who's like you, believes know all you believe in, wakes up at 5am like you do and likes Rolex no. Tolerance is an important factor in making people feel comfortable in your life. But that will call you to categorise your friends in terms of who you can associate with the more and the less depending on your level of what you can tolerate. It is also a duty of a friend to make your life better, and you to make his life better by learning and teaching each other.
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